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Body Confidence and Sexual Confidence
Many people, men and women alike have 'problem' areas with their bodies. Their bum is too big, their boobs are saggy, their tummy isn’t flat, his muscles aren’t big enough or his penis isn’t. Regardless of how much your partner tells you how sexy you are, your problem areas hold you back from being the sexy fox you know you could be. Not feeling hot to trot has an influence on your sex life because it plays on your largest sex organ, you mind, and it shakes your sexual confidence.
These tips are divided into of dealing with three different levels of confidence deficiency relating to physical appearance and sexual confidence.
Level 1 Are you one of those people who can’t be seen naked, do you undress in the dark, do you insist on making love with the light off? Blindfolds are often recommended as a means of building confidence because your bind partner can not see your problem areas, so no one has to worry about them. This can be very sexy but obviously it is not a long-term solution.
Instead it’s worth remembering that you don't need to be naked in order to have sex. Dress sexily in something that makes you feel good, something that you feel confident wearing. And then have sex, dressed with the lights on. Push clothing to one side out of the way to gain enough access for a quick romp. In time you will feel confident enough to undo or remove items of clothing. As you hear moans of pleasurable excitement from your partner at the visual impact of your naked flesh, your confidence will grow.
Level 2 OK, so you just have a small hang up which stops you from really letting yourself go. There are a couple of things that you could do. Again you don't have to be naked to have great sex, although guys that still doesn’t mean that you can keep your socks on.
Wear something sex to hide your problem area. A min shirt hides a bum or tum and can be erotic to have a hand sliding up. If you fret over droopy breasts keep your bra on and scoop them out from the cups. This gives them a bit of loft and support. Worried about your torso? Wear a muscle T-shirt and let hands wander up it, it also provides something to grab and pull at.
The other option is the simple and effective trick of back lighting. If you have a bright light behind you it miraculously makes you look more attractive, it slims down your figure and reduces any unforgiving lumps. The back light effect can be achieved with candles, a lamp, a roaring fire - you see its not just by coincidence that these things are considered romantic. It is preferable to have the light source low to the ground and always behind you on the other side of the room, maybe at the foot of the bed? Do be careful if you are using naked flames, fire crew running through the bedroom can be a bit of a passion killer.
Level 3 The last sexual confidence killer that some people experience is concerning their genitals, and particularly their genital size. Women worry that they vaginas aren’t as toned as they were in their younger days and men worry that their penis is undersized. Firstly if your genitals were so hideously ill effective during lovemaking, your partner would have ran off by now, so do be aware that the problem is mainly in your head.
Girls it's really easy to sort out a loose pussy problem. Just take up pelvic floor exercises to strengthen and vagina muscles and tighten your pussy. You can do them anywhere and no one will even know that you are exercising. Tight muscles really improve your sex life, try it out and see for yourself.
How to do pelvic floor exercises...
For the guys, it is harder to make such a significant difference, however keeping a short bush does give the appearance of extra length.
Men need to concentrate more on customer satisfaction, here is a whole lot more to sex than just sexual penetration, and many more ways to skin a rabbit, or pleasure it in this case. Besides 90% of women don't climax from penetration alone anyway. Work your tongue and finger techniques and go for quality and not quantity.
If your woman does like that fill feeling during penetration, keep a slimline vibrator handy and enter her with the vibe already inside her, this will pleasure you both.
Remember it's not the size of your tackle that makes you a great lover.
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